It's totally hard not to leap at any perceived waffling. Just try and keep the road smooth and open.
Yes, its one of my biggest challenges. I don't know anyone here, so if I do talk to her she is the only person over the age of 7 that I talk to. Which makes it even harder.
I have seen people on here who have had great success with GAL, without breaking the bank. I'm just struggling to find it with having 3 kids all the time (grateful for that) and not a whole lot of money to waste on a sitter.
Glad to hear that I'm not the only one jumping at the first flirtatious comment I hear every now and then.