Filling out all financial data for attorneys, didnt realize the amount of money I spend on basic things electric, oil, phone, and cable. The reality is really hitting home for my W as her attorney has not responded to our requests.
W is being very friendly and starts convos with me I just pleasantly respond and keep it moving. My lawyer advised me to let her do the thinking for me and to take my heart of the marraige. There is no way for us to keep the house unless W has some rich millionaire BF...lol.
I am just living my life for me and my children now and I have gotten over the hurt. The damage being created will be my W's burden not mine. I have learned so much about myself in the last several months its amazing what we do not see as we are living it. The financial pressures of life really got in the way of my W and I having a good marriage. We just didnt do anything anymore we didnt date like we did early in the marraige. I cannot turn the clock back so I will look forward.
Thank you to all the vets on here, such amazing people who stayed on to help others.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
