The Mlcer will move out and then frequently visit, especially if there are kids and call..Mine did

we became friendly during the intial bomb drop

It is a difficult adjustment period for everytone

You can skip a few of his calls.. make plans
Let him see what life will be like without you being his sounding board..
and you Certainly don't need to hear about other women
May want to set limits in the conversation to protect yourself

Keep posting and others will chime in to support you

hang in there


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow