GW, reading your posts tells me that anger is driving your decisions right now. I suggest you slow down a little bit and think about what are the principles you want to personally abide by and what are your goals? I personally want to act honorably so that when I look back on what I did, I can say I did what was right and not reacting to slights with anger. I also have the goal of what's best for my children and have thought thru what that means to me.
There's no "winning" in this sitch. I wouldn't escalate the arguments or difficulties with your W because it doesn't help you with any of your goals.
