Keep in mind, SD, I haven't actually begun IMPLEMENTING this stuff yet. I'm still trying to integrate it, although I have to say I've totally surprised myself at how quickly I've gotten through the book and begun to understand it. I'm fully expecting to hit a wall when I begin trying this stuff, and then all my newfound knowledge will be definitely put to the test. I'm confident that when that DOES happen, I have a whole new set of tools to fall back on, and I can get through it. All week I've been posting a LOT of stuff here, for a couple of reasons. First, typing this stuff out helps me to solidify the knowledge for myself (it's one of my learning styles). I can even practice it and model it for myself to some extent by doing that. Secondly, the exchanges that have resulted have again allowed me to further think things through and integrate the material. Also, the kind of excitement this book generates by just reading it just has to go somewhere. W has not begun to see the changes in me just yet... they've all been internal so far, but very soon (probably within the next two days) she will begin seeing the New Me. Not all at once, of course, but it will definitely be there. I confess I'm not quite sure myself just where all the linkages are, but I'm confident I can discover them as I begin working on this stuff. I'll keep you posted. Keep the faith...