Yikes theres a lot of stuff in there. I'm not sure I'm looking forward to this book! I have come across the concentric circles thing before when I was made redundant and went on a job seeking course. The guy said that the job I had was in my comfort zone and the comfort zone is like a desert island. Over the horizon is a much better job but I had to swim through the shark infested water to get it. This sounds similar. I still struggle to see how me changing my approach to anything will get me to my ultimate goal where my LDW speaks to me in my LLs (sex, physical touch and words of affirmation) with sufficient desire to make me feel happy, contented and loved when she has none of those LLs, skills or desires and never has had. SD
