I am glad you decided not to be a 3-month a year Dad... And I get that you are gung ho... But please do this with a peaceful mind... Have clarity... Don't be rash in your decisions... It's good you had a peaceful sleep... You need that at this time... Still detach... Don't even consider what is waiting for your WW... That has nothing to do with you... That is her business... Her circus... And look at it this way... You are not keeping your wife away from your kids... She is choosing a life without them... Even while she lived there she locked herself away in your bedroom to FaceTime with OM for hours. Your kids were aware of that, and even told you about it... Your daughter came to you when she felt wrong about her mother telling her to keep you from knowing OM sent your kids gifts... keep your sanity... Don't talk too much... Do not focus on WW... And don't forget to continue to work on you... GAL... DB... It doesn't stop because you've made a decision... May you have another peaceful sleep...
