Thank you for the advice and direction. I read many of the attachments and the sections about signs of MLC really resonated with me. My H has nearly all of them.
My H is 46 years old. He owns his own business. The business is not doing well mostly because he is constantly distracted by social media. We were turned down for 2 loans for our house because of his business financials. This was about 8 months ago. We borrowed money from a family member instead. He told me in early November that he was thinking of leaving me. He slowly became hostile to me and blamed me for all different things. Nothing made sense. He was so excited to find an apartment and we were supposed to be happy for him. He told me that he was spending less and less time with me so he could get used to not being with me. He left in mid-December.
In the seven weeks since he left, he has contacted me every day except for 5. Two of those days were this weekend. During the past two weeks, he has consistently talked about decorating his apartment, how relaxed he is now, getting attention from other women, picking up things from the house, etc. I'm a little frustrated with the direction of these comments. He seemed closer two weeks ago.
