Welcome.

Great point. Being divorced does feel like living 2 parallel lives! Its no longer about living 100% for your family.
Suddenly (if you share custody) you get
"me time". Something i imagine the walkaways desperatly wanted. I know a few overwhelmed parents that would love an every other weekend to themselves. To be young again. Flirt, date.

And it is fun. I still would have preferred the traditional family unit though.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer