DB Advice to a newbie

[Kilo]

Subitai,

I was certain in the moment that they were. They were not.

Same for me. It is also feels incredible to have any sort of love, affection or just a good interaction.

When I am giving her space, things get easier between us.

This shines a little hope to me.

Pursuing every little sign of waffling just makes them re-visit the reasons they had for leaving as they need to 're justify' themselves again and again. So you're encouraging and training going back over the reasons for leaving, not encouraging them to think of the reasons for staying.

I thought that any bit of pursuing was going to be received differently from W. Here I am, making emotional changes and different approaches since starting DB. Starting to get back to the man I was initially, so maybe I would get a different/better reception from her. I hope that wasn't too confusing lol.

Thanks for your input, I need to hear stuff like this.