Definitely documenting. This forum is actually my journal. There are a few things I haven't posted here that I have written down elsewhere, but I document everything. I also keep every text backed up so I can recall them at need.
Went out to dinner with D tonight and she told me "mommy said you tricked her" and "mommy says it's your fault she doesn't live here anymore" and "mommy says you don't want to spend time with her." So I guess the divorce is my fault, too, and XW is making sure to put that in D's mind. All I told her was not to worry about what happened between mommy and daddy, because she wasn't part of that, that mommy and daddy both love her very much, and that everything would be ok.
AS, the good news is that MNG never gets physical... part of the whole "I will never be my father" bit. I've never even been tempted.
H, more than one person has suggested that XW wants me back. I don't know if I buy into that, I think V has the right of it when she says it's all about destroying my R with GF through the stress she's putting on me, and using D to punish me. D did say that MOMMY wanted to see me on Friday though.
artista, she had NO way of knowing that GF would be there. That was ENTIRELY coincidental, GF just happened to be with her mother who was buying a car. Normally, she would be leaving work around that time, but she was out sick.
I see my C every Friday at 2:00 and XW knows that. If I go home after my C appointment, I'd normally be passing where she was parked by 3:05-3:10.
