For me, at the moment I'm feeling a bit disoriented... like feeling like a foreigner in my own skin. You're definitely right about how it turns everything upside down, but I'm not sure I agree that it "completely invalidates almost everything you've already read and learned on this site". It's a radically different approach, yes, but I don't think it's necessarily incompatible with what's in Michele's books, I just think it goes a LOT farther. It goes right to the CORE. Careful, Dave, you don't want to get us banned from this site!!
Ooops...you are right. I didn't mean to get so dramatic. Actually, yesterday on the way to the C, my W and I were talking about self-help books and mentioned that there are good insights in all of them. The dangerous books are the "male-vs-female" generalization books named after planets. These aren't self-help but rather self-validation, cop-out fodder.
What's really going to cook your noodle is when you read PM, then take the LL concept that "we naturally provide the love languages we want for ourselves", and then ask "WHY do we do this?". Reflected sense of self....hmmmm?
-Dave (whose brain is melting).
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
