Time is your friend. Stop panicking about how to playthis. I don'thhave time to say much so I will just make a few quick comments. Plus you have already good advice coming at you.
I posted the thread from Zeus in your last thread. Job has done so here. Reread it.
I don't think you should be categorique with W that you still want to be with her. Be open to it but not over eager. After a final weekend away she clicks her fingers and states terms for seeing how it goes. It isn't that simple. Don't make it so.
This is hugely positive and fair play to you for achieving it. But this isn't the final play of the match. Keep an eye on the game plan.
No one can decide for you, but in your place I would move out. Tell W you want to think about a possible reconciliation but only after you have moved out.
Don't feel guilty or worry about missing your chance. She cheated with two men, and filed for D. I say that to remind you that taking time and space is nothing compared to that. But also the fact that she still has a chance means you could too regardless of your next move.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
