I also have another update I forgot to mention, she reactivated her Facebook account yesterday. This brings with it a question: should I be posting my activities, etc. on Facebook? I feel that by doing that will further push her away because it will look like I'm trying too hard and only doing those things to win her back.
My advice would be to defriend her. You're separated, you don't need to be watching each others lives. Connecting with your friends on FB can be good for you -- being tempted to "peacock" things for her in an attempt to make her notice is bad across the board. Remove that temptation by unfriending her.
It will certainly send the message that you're not holding onto her leg for dear life, and that's what you want.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
