Sounds like you're doing as well as can be expected my friend -- time heals all wounds.
Originally Posted By: Holding
I'm thinking more about my future, new goals, and the possibility of new R's. But the idea of another M frankly scares the sh!t out of me.
No rush. You said yourself you don't *need* to be in a relationship so just enjoy some time to yourself for a while. When you do start dating, take it slowly and do NOT jump into a relationship quickly, give yourself time to date many people and just enjoy that experience for a while.
If the need for a longer term relationship emerges you'll know, but there's no need to rush anything, life is too short.
Keep working out, focus on getting the D formalized, and enjoy your boys.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
