I met with my L about my response to the D petition. I checked the box that I disagree with the reason for D, which is irreconcilable differences. I also wrote on the form, "We could have a good marriage, if, and only if, W works on it with me".
The L said it didn't matter what I put because only one side needs to want the D. She suggested I remove the note, but also said from a legal perspective it wouldn't effect anything. The court clerk would accept the form and file it.
I wrote the note because it's how I felt, and I thought I would let her know that the door is open for recon if she wants it. I didn't submit the form yet, and now I'm thinking I should just check the box that I agree with her and remove the note I wrote. I was thinking it is too much pursuit and she probably already realizes I would consider recon.
any thoughts?
BTW, there's a lot of other things I would want to write on the response, but the court would probably take a dim view of it
