East, your XW is attacking your weak spot, your love for your D. It's the only weapon she can use against you. And it's pathetic.

Why do you think your XW is trying so hard to get at you? I know that's usually considered mind reading, but I think in this case it's something that can help you protect yourself.

Please keep a log or journal that records all of these interactions with her. I know it can be tedious, but it might be VERY useful in the future. Take screenshots of these texts and email them to yourself.

It svcks that even after D, you have to live like this. Is there a timeframe on getting the parenting plan set in stone?


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.