Wow East, you are a freakin' saint to be able to go through that and still be normal! Your XW sure sounds mental. I just hope she's not dangerous. Have you talked to your L? Just curious if he/she thinks you should be recording/ documenting all the insanity. I'm not sure what your XW's end game is, but clearly she is intentionally trying to goad you into a reaction. Maybe she's hoping you'll get physical so she can use it against you to block your visitations, I don't know but tread carefully!