Thank you. I am working with not only a DB coach but my own personal therapist. These abandonement issues have gotten better throughout the years but creep up from time to time. The patience thing is the hardest in particular when I have the divorce papers in front of me. He is talking to me more and seems more comfortable in initiating conversations. I can only assume its because he filed. He is sad or angry most of the time but then he will discuss things with me that he would not have in the past. Someone asked me if I would contest the divorce in order to get a conciliatory meeting. I am not if anyone has done that but it seems it would do more harm than good. It is a no fault state but I think it is counterproductive. Thoughts?
