it is a fine line to walk with MLCer
anything can set them off
Most will not want to go to or hear about therapy, even though it makes sense to us-they see it as pressure or control
they don't want to work on themselves

You can be cordial to him, kind, friendly
no expectations because they change their moods and minds constantly

try to focus on you
make new plans with friends, find hobby, take care of yourself as best you can, read, post. sleep, rest and try to eat- get individual counseling
hang in there
It gets easier


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow