I understand your fear, anxiety, and increasing expectations. I am sure many of us have dreamt of having our WAS leave OP and wanting to return. You have received much sound advice. It is not my intent to add to your confusion, I just have the following.
From what I understand there should be a pretty severe withdrawl from OM2, and it should be happening soon. I have read different ideas on how to let the WAS get through this time, from letting them ride this out on their own, to being available to lessen their temptation to return to OP. Perhaps someone with more experience can speak to the pros and cons of each.
We are all here for you.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
