I just saw your posts and that must be devastating!! Do you know if she is still actively seeing the OM? Gosh DBing can be so difficult in particular when they want stuff. I had to go to the bank today with WAS to get the papers notarized. He kept bothering me about it so I had to. It is hard to see my whole life basically on paper. Chuck has been extremely patient and helped open my eyes to things that I was not seeing. What I am curious about is knowing how many were successful in saving their marriages at this stage. I know that it is individual but it always helps add hope.
