New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

Those are very good points. I'll keep my stuff updated, but I won't go overboard.

I too am curious how she's responding. Sadly we don't have an open channel of communication as I'm giving her time and space. I'm not initiating contact, I'll leaving that up to her.

Also, I've been thinking. Once the divorce is finalized, I feel my chances of reconciliation are almost zero. At that point, she has no reason to talk to me or see me. I have my son who she was a step-parent to, but she's by no means obligated to see him. Regardless, I'm still GAL and keeping a PMA. I'm actually making plans for this weekend as my son's grandparents are taking him from Friday night to Sunday morning.