i just assumed that he was getting 'better' since he got what he wanted. I shouldn't have assumed. Felt safe that way I suppose, just getting on with things.
He went, I moved on, letting my guard down. My focus will be me - but I feel that I need to be careful ... Just got me by surprise ...
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017