M - I guess it kind of is by obviously with bigger ramifications. The best advice I can give is to start working on detaching (it's a process not a light switch) and get into the best shape of your life.
H - I told her that I didn't think that would work as an A could only represent one person at a time.
In the same conversation I also told her that if she wants to have minimal L costs then her and I need to work together in the best interests of our future and our children to make this as easy and cost effective as possible.
She sent me a couple of emails this morning asking me who I was going to use, etc. (which I have no clue but my friend who is a judge gave me a couple names) and a few other things including paying for a retainer. I just told her to keep me updated on her progress.
