Gord, I don't have all of the answers, but I do know that what many are saying sounds like good information. Moving out sounds scary and I think that that fear is what is clouding your decision. I didn't have to do that since my ex is the one that left. That was Nov. 2016 and I can tell you that it took a long time for me to become semi-comfortable being there w/o her. The only thing that helped was GAL activities...the good and the bad.

She has told you what you have been wanting to hear for years, but is it for her benefit or yours? I would listen to the men on here that have been thru the false starts and/or let their spouses come home too soon. That might shed some light for you.

Prayers to you and your family!


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!