This morning, D was very difficult. She woke up happy, but things went bad fast. She wanted to have a bath while we were getting ready for school. I explained we didn't have time, she'd get one tonight, and that she was asleep when we got home last night, which is why she didn't have one. She said she hadn't had one all weekend, and felt dirty.
Didn't want to brush her teeth. She usually dawdles on that in the morning, but today she was REALLY not wanting to. When I finally got her to go to the bathroom to brush, she came out fifteen seconds later crying. She said she'd peed on herself. She had. She's a bedwetter but has NO issues when she's awake. That was a behavior. She lied and said she tried to get to the toilet and couldn't.
I asked if she'd had a good weekend. She said she had a really bad one. I asked why, and she said her (four year old) cousin called her a "b---- f---er." As far as I know, her cousin wasn't supposed to be around this week, so I don't know if that was the four year old or someone else. I hugged her, told her not to use those words and she started crying saying she was bad, and she wasn't a good kid, and she was sorry, and I tried to say she wasn't in trouble, because I understood she was just trying to tell me what someone said to her, but she was REALLY upset and ran back to bed.
It was a bad morning. Probably the worst morning we've had in a year.