Welcome to the MLC Forum. Can you give us more info about your situation, i.e., such as the age of your h and if there was something that happened 18-24 months prior to him starting the crisis. This could be a new job, loss of job, a new baby, death of a family member/friend, etc.
One of the things that MLCers do not like is talking about issues, especially in therapy. They shut down very quickly. Being a friend to a MLCer is listening to them and only offering up advice when they ask for it.
I'm going to post Cadet's welcome post...please read it. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.