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I am. She got super mad tonight because I refused to sign the agreement to allow the kids to go to Georgia. I thought hard about it. My daughter thinks that the suns shines out of my wife’s arse, and would be devastated to be away from her. My son would die if he was separated from his sister. So I made the painful choice to allow them to go with her. If I forced the issue and made them stay here with me odds are they would end up resenting me forever. It might be a reversal or backup on my part, but the well-being of my kids is important to me. The fact that she could choose to hurt me and the two kids over hurting him by breaking up with him says a lot about her mental state right now. She would choose to hurt us over him...... I also thought again about turning him in, but then my sensible , thinking side emerged after being dormant for so long. It might be a good idea to have her take them and go to him. She wanted to leave them with me over the summer while she went to him to “get things ready” then get them for school..it might be better to let her take them right away to go there so there is no three month kid free love fest. Let reality really hit home right out of the gate. I could fight to keep the kids here and win but it would only make them hae bad feelings towards me right now......