My husband of 22 years moved out last month - 2 weeks before Christmas because he is having a midlife crisis which I believe stems from the financial problems from his business and our personal finances. I have been following the divorce busters rules and guidelines and he has been very communicative. However, he is hard to read and he threw me off last Friday when he took some responsibility for his actions. I tried keeping him in the "friendzone" by saying we should talk about our issues in therapy. It did not go over well. He has not contacted me since. I know this is a long process and the advice I have been given is invaluable but I feel frustrated. Advise appreciaed.