Of course you will not agree to be a 3-month a year Dad... Why should you? Chances are she won't end up in Georgia... But she is free to if that's what she wants... That's on her... That decision of hers has nothing to do with you... You are not forcing her to go to Georgia... No matter what she says... You are not punishing her because she fell in love with someone else... You are taking your life back from her craziness... You don't owe her living your life in her self-made insanity... That she thinks you should put up with her out right disrespect for you, your home, marriage and family shows how highly she thinks of herself... now that you have taken a bold stance, you need to follow through...