Quote: Now - get all dolled up when you do this, and come home smelling of Old Spice
Ellie, you make me smile!
I'd say rottz that what you are feeling are in the norm. Seems to me you can't see the forest for the trees! Sometimes we need other people to let us know there are baby steps, being close to the sitch we don't see them!
Keep working on you, right now he just needs you near him. He too has to work on some issues. If he is like my H, a friendship comes first the sex is somewhere toward the bottom. Don't take his refusal so personally, sometimes they are only testing us, to see if we will run.
Keep busy, find new hobbies or pick up old ones. Be the gal your H first meet, work on you.
I'd say things are looking great, hang in there, this is a long journey!
