Sure, continue with the divorce. He has proven multiple times that his words mean next to nothing. As a matter of fact they usually indicate the opposite of what's likely to occur. I have reached critical mass and there is really nothing that will convince me at this point he is recoverable. He will be wayward his entire life, even if it's not cheating it will be always trying to get away with bare minimum so he can have a maid, bill payer and child care provider. I guess I have become a walk-away, but unlike other walk-aways I've tried everything under the sun to save a marriage he burned to the ground. He does not show me even the slightest signs of caring or respect. I know I can do better and I am sick to death of waiting for him to even reach 10% of what I need in a partner.


M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3