Husband gone for the second time - 2

[Cherry]

Oh honey, i feel for you, i really do. I’ve been there, I’m sure we all have. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, looking back we can always see things we could have done better. Learn from it and move on. There’s been loads of good advise here for you. Take it in, breathe and focus on you. I wrote a letter at some point for my wh, i said my piece and i left it there. You’ve done that now, he can read it and absorb it in his own time.
Cliche, and you’ve been told this , but it will get easier if you focus on you. I didn’t believe this much myself to start, you feel the hurt will never ease, but it does. But you need to focus on the here and now and you. Please please take a bit of time to do some you things. Take your daughter out and enjoy seeing the smile on her face.
No one can tell you what the future may hold, he might come back, he might not. But you must work on making yourself happy- you owe it to yourself and your daughter. I know how you feel about feeling bad for your child bringing her up without the mum/dad setup, but believe me- she will be happier with just one happy parent than two unhappy. You’re going to set the example to her if what a woman is and how a woman should be treated. You don’t want her to think it’s okay for a husband to ignore/ cheat on his spouse.

Take care of yourself. Breathe, remember the old oxygen mask speech. Do something for you, anything- whatever makes you feel good about you.