Great assessment Ginger, you were only a few channels off and a show down the dial!
Seriously, East, you can't fix crazy. There is no point in trying. The best you can do is protect D. She has no voice - you must protect her!
Tough as what I'm about to say will be to hear, you really must look inward as to why you refused to see the signs that had to be right in front in front of you! You don't go from Jerry Springer to normal back to Springer again. The signs had to be there. Why did you ignore them? That should be explored before getting involved in your next series R. Or is it already too late for that?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D