Gordie #16: walking away from from MLC W

[Gordie]

All and especially Butterly,

Thank you so much for the heartfelt advice. I am really struggling over what to do. I really don’t want to move out. She dropped the D and OM2 and that’s what I wanted. She has take a step forward in that she says D is not going to make her life better and taken legal action to drop it. I feel that’s what the first chapter of D B is about. D will not solve your problems. But yes, she is still far from recommiting to me and M.

I do want to speak to my d b coach.

Butterfly—almost everyone said move out but your message was the one that explained the why...I really don’t know what to do.

I am also consulting with my IRL friends and some say stay and some say go. I really don’t know what to do. I said special prayers at church today for some divine guidance.

I am also influenced by my parents. They hurt each other a lot including infidelity but they never separated or D and they eventually worked it out. That’s what I’d like to do.

And now that she’s dropped the D I really do feel like I am walking away from her and the kids by moving out and I don’t want to do that.