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She cried when I told her to get her things together. The WiFi pissed her off. I told her to stop using the kids as pawns and to recognize that the divorce will not be a casual friendly endeavor. That one of us would not like the outcome. To drop the expectation that I will lay down and let her roll over me and have her way in the proceedings. She can’t afford a lawyer and I am guaranteed 50 percent custody before entering the court room by state law . She said if I get more than 30 percent she couldn’t keep the kids with her because she couldn’t support herself, and it would be me punishing her for loving someone else. It’s this in a bit she’ll- she cheated, she made the decision to do so, and she must accept the consequences. I will not lose out on my children’s lives because she decided to step out. He will have no part in raising my kids. I think once reality hits and he sees movement he will run. He isn’t ready and does not want the responsibility of a family. It would seriously impeded his social life and stop him from buying the expensive things he likes . Over all her reaction was disbelief as I handed her a completed packet, and she cried a lot.