I asked her that q and she responded she wants to “feel” cherished and held and supported in all of her endeavors. She wants us to be more independent of each other financially, socially, and to not feel suffocated and controlled by me and the M. She ““couldn’t hear her own voice” and now that she can she doesn’t want to lose that ever. She wants me to love her and not the role she plays in my life.
Then by all means, this is one more major reason to keep with your plans to move out, and when she gets mad and pushes back on that, I would definitely tell her that this is how you will each learn to be more independent.
xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
