K - If a R convo every came up at some point that would essentially be part of the convo.
JJ - We shall see how serious she is and if she really follows through. Maybe as she consults with an A it will make her think twice who knows. I am more a Type B personality. It is hard not saying anything to her or initiating a R talk myself but I know it's the right thing to do. She has not given me 1 sign in almost 8 months the she feels any differently. When I see her she just appears dead inside, no spark in her eyes, just very flat.
She texted me last night, sent me a couple videos of our youngest playing basketball and said that maybe we could share an attorney. I haven't responded yet as I don't think that is possible but it does appear she is full steam ahead. I have the girls this week starting this morning so I wouldn't be too shocked if she met with one after work this week. It is interesting to me that she has never consulted with one so I can't help to wonder what got her to the point to where she is ready and if I did something wrong during my DBing efforts.
Either way, what will be will be and I really am at peace.
