Thanks V....she started off the convo by saying she was ready to move forward with D and she fully knows she is the one that will need to file (obviously I should not believe all of her words). Me filing never came up in the convo. She knows all the work will fall on her shoulders. When she left I told her to keep me posted and I would give her any information she needs.
I have been friendly during our interactions but still have not been pursuing or initiating conversation. She definately has all the space she needs to sort out her feelings. Should I continue with this same course of action?
It is obvious to me that she has no real plan and in many ways I feel very sorry for her. I realize I can't save her but if she desides to move forward she really will have no one in her life as she has no family outside of me and the kids. I am sure that weighs heavily on her however it is her journey to figure out.
