J9,

I don't find it odd. Your W is not ready for D. She was trying to gauge you (temp check). She looks miserable because she is. She seems like a very stubborn person. You have probably added fuel to her misery, by showing her a confident, prepared J9.

She's came apart. She is hurting and lost.

I don't see anything wrong with standing for your M.

IMO your W won't being doing the work for this D.

Are you both A type personalities? If so than, seems to me that both of you might be waiting for the other one to blink. Just my opinion.


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.