And MLC continue..
I received a Costco' s renewal notice addressed to ex-h' midden name and MY ADRESS on it.. Are those membership good for TEN years?? I doubt it..
I took a pic of the enveloppe and sent it to ex-h asking if it is his?
He answered: " yes, it is mine"
I ended the conversation with a : ok

What do i do with this now?
D17 does not want to bring it to him. They have been distancing from him since Christmas. Ex-h has been playinv the guilt trip on them while making excuses on his end to not coming to see them.

My question to you guys: " Can you renew those membership on line?

If so, i will ignore this letter all together. If not, i' ll have to find a way to get it to him.

I could do soooo much damage with this!! Lol
He is lucky i am not the type to get revenge. I could give this simple letter to his little lady and expose him. Using different names, different adresses. The fact that MY adress is on it is twice as hard to swallow since we have been separated for so long.

It' s almost like he wants to get caught.
I do know he has OWs beside this living in one and so does the children.

He will never come out of it. He still cycles in ALL STAGES.

I think what triggered him this time around is OUR DISCUSSION to relocate. It seem like he is losing his family (us) all over again.

Maybe i got this all wrong. I am speculating what MLC is to us.

Journaling and comparing our experiences are the best way to knowledge on the subject.