Wild ride and now trapped in the Bermuda Triangle

[dmoy]

Any thoughts on apologies? I've appologized a few times for various things but it never really seemed like it connected. I was reading "When Sorry Isn't Enough" by Gary Chapman and made me thing whether or not I was apologizing the wrong way, not empathizing with the pain she felt after the affair. The typical guy "I said I'm sorry, lets move on", though I've given more heartfelt apologies since she moved out the second time. I'm just on the fence on whether it'll help or push her away more. I suppose that's more in how I give the apology (not begging to come back, etc).

I saw it mentioned in the MWD Infidelity book, but not in as much detail other than apologize and keep apologizing, rather than the "how" aspect.

I'd hate for all the hard work I've done to be in vain because I half-a$$ed an apology and the one reason she never gave me another chance was because she felt I didn't regret what I did to her.