Thank you guys, as you can imagine this is a very tough time for me which is why I keep trying to fix things...but I understand that I can only fix myself, and likewise be the only person to make myself happy.

Another question: how long should I keep radio silence with her? We haven't spoken since Sunday, so almost a week now. There's a pretty good chance I get handed the papers next week. She still has things at our house to pick up and I feel like she's ghosting me right now.


M:2.5 T:8
H:31 W:27
S:12
BD:1/4/2018
W Moved Out: 1/8/2018
OM Confirmed: 2/19/18