Thanks you two, those are great suggestions. Unfortunately, I have always been the adventurous one. We use toys, ML in semi-public all the time (woods, late at night on my neighbor's porch at my mom's condo, etc.), I wear pretty lingerie, tons of positions, am aggressive or passive, whatever. Like Deb's H, mine has said "all you think about is sex." Which is not true. Just most of the time.
I did buy a red-copper colored curly wig to wear at Halloween, and H mentioned how beautiful I was in it and seems interested in it mildly whenever it turns up in our room. I was thinking of wearing it in public and "picking" him up once. But, haven't found the time yet. Maybe I'll put it on tonight and see if it gets him going. I love my hair the way it is, H says it looks like a rainbow in the sunshine, so I don't intend to color it for good.
I recently bought some scarves and stuff for my toy box to play with H. We haven't done that yet, but he has seen the pop rocks and feather duster on my dresser, so he's commented that he knows what is coming. He just doesn't have a clue about the extent of what I have planned. It's just that whenever we ML, he tends to put his hands behind his head. So, I thought I'd tie them there. LOL
Basically, I think it's a combo of me being overweight, and H being a bit depressed about "falling out of love" with me. It's hard to be and act sexy when you feel like the Goodyear blimp. For years, we ML with my clothes on because I was so embarrassed. One of my 180s was to sleep naked with him, and it seems to be working out well. At least he hasn't done what I most feared and touched my stomach and been grossed out. Oh well...
Maybe tonight I'll get out the hot tea, ice cubes, Altoids and pop rocks and tie H to the bedposts. Tee hee hee...
