You stated that she does not take any responsibility for her part and still blames you for the break down of your marriage, yet you question what you should do given her recent actions?
Why would you change course? Look at the recent history of your relationship. She stays at other mans place, demands divorce, treat you very poorly rubbing your nose in her actions. You finally have enough and make arrangements to move out and get on with your life with out her. This was not what she expected and causes her to change her course some what to try and recapture her control of the situation. Will this last or just be a pause in her behavior? Again, Why would you change course?
The course you are on now has set yourself up for success with or without your spouse. Don't make the mistake and change course now. If you getting your own place for now causes her to run back to OM and bail on working on your relationship then it wasn't not meant to be. Keep going!!!
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