Thanks. Yes, she is still in her crisis. I vascilate between hopeful and cynical. I know it took years to get to this point and there are no quick fixes or guaranteed outcomes. But dropping the d and OM2 are big deals so don’t want to be dismissive of that either. I think I need to read the healing from infidelity book and think about those “obvious” questions. I feel like the landscape has shifted and need to figure out how things change from here—and what things don’t. I want to keep my hard earned changes and GAL of course. She did ask, why did it take a crisis for you to hear me and make these changes? Why didn’t you hear me all these years? I accepted responsibility and expressed remorse for that.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
