Good: She says being D will not make her life better. Things will be worse for her and the kids. She agreed to go to therapy for her issues.
Bad: She still blames me for the breakdown of our M and she has no remorse about anything. She is still angry with me.
Ugly: She doesn’t know how she feels about me but is willing to work on things to “see what happens”. She doesn’t want a physical R with me right now.
I told her I was surprised and happy but didn’t want to make assumptions about what this meant. I reiterated that I can’t stay M or living together if there are any other parties involved. She says she knows this as I’ve said it repeatedly. I also respected her wish not to sleep together at this time but that I also don’t believe in loveless, sexless M.
So how do YOU feel about this ??
Would you accept her and the marriage if there were never any sex, yet the connection was amazing between the two of you ??
Would you accept her and the marriage if the sex were amazing and there was zero connection between the two of you ??
What exactly does reconciliation look like to you ???
And how will you know when you get there ??
How would you sustain after you know that you are there ???
