This may be a little on the blunt side...but have you tried something "different" or "exotic" to get his attention? Change of hair color, interesting lingerie, that sort of thing. My H has always asked me to do that sort of stuff. At first I was a little hesitant, said it wasn't "me," but then it got to be more fun.

This may be along the lines of Too Much Information...hehe...but I got H's attention by catching him by surprise. He had made the statements that it just wasn't "there" anymore, he didn't see me sexually anymore even though I was beautiful, that sort of thing. So, one day, I went on lunch down to the lingerie store and bought a toy. Nothing fancy. Never used one before, never wanted to, although H kept asking. I was at work, so I sent him a simple text: "I bought something." We had been talking about it the night before, so he knew exactly what I was meant. He wrote back, simply, " " So I sent him another: "Want to try it out tonight?" I got the fastest response I have ever gotten from him!! He said "Yes" Then: "I think I love you."

Anyway...is there something he has mentioned as a big turn-on? I'm planning on dyeing my hair blonde in the next couple of weeks (it's very dark brown naturally), so that'll be a big surprise.

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]