So husband and Active/inactive AP work together, they are both asst principals at a school. For Christmas she bought him 2 dress shirts from Costco. (Her husband, who I talk to, told me). My H never brought them home...until last night. They are hidden in his backpack. Assuming he waited a month so he could slip them in without me questioning.

Last year he bought her a $180 wireless headset for her phone. Her husband made her return them to him saying it was an inappropriate gift. My H stashed it in his closet, which I stumbled on putting his clothes away. When I questioned them he lied and said he bought them for himself. He knows I know about headset, but not shirts.

Incidentally, he came to bed at 2 am last night and initiated sex. It is so cold and meanless. I guess he eitherfelt guilty about the shirts or watched porn and I was available. I have no doubt he will be back on the couch tonight.